If you were struggling really bad and you had a child to care for and your health was declining, would u....?

marry for money or still go for love * unless you were a goldigger to beging with

If you were struggling really bad and you had a child to care for and your health was declining, would u....?in all honesty, i would marry for money. but ONLY because my child would come first. I am in no way a gold digger, but if my child needed support then I would do what ever I could. And if I got my feet on the ground after the marriage and set up my own sort of work I could always get a divorce and go for the whole love thing. But again, what ever is best for the kid. Even if it means staying married to a person I do not love.If you were struggling really bad and you had a child to care for and your health was declining, would u....?
I was in your situation and chose to marry a man who isn't wealthy but happy to work hard and bring in all the money for all the bills so I could stay home and I'm the one who manages the money and checkbook. It took a long time to get past the idea that I needed to be in love but after so many love relationships went so bad and hurt so much, I'm happy now and have even grown to love him so much that I'd fight to keep him. I'm still not IN love but I've got a good thing and plan to keep it. There's no stress in my life now, I'm very well taken care of even though we're not rich, the sex is good when I need it and when I whisper I love you, I mean it...just as I mean it when I say I love you to my kids, parents and best friends. I'm just not IN love and finally, I don't miss it. Oh yes, he's very happy too and he IS in love.If you were struggling really bad and you had a child to care for and your health was declining, would u....?I would still go with love. Marrying for money will make you miserable, depressed and would make me feel bad about myself, because I am playing this poor man for his money. I couldnt cope with my conscious. I couldn't do it to someone and to myself. If your not happy it would just make your health worse! I would find other ways to support my child, with help of relatives, stability in a job, no way would i use someone elses life.
Love is fleeting. Money, if managed correctly, lasts forever. If you were struggling really bad and you had a child to care for and your health was declining, would u....?Perhaps my grandmas advice will help...."Women who marry for money spend the rest of their lives paying for it" There are other options.If you were struggling really bad and you had a child to care for and your health was declining, would u....?
Love wins out all the time
in that situation i would say $$, i would feel bad but you gotta think of your daughterIf you were struggling really bad and you had a child to care for and your health was declining, would u....?
go 4 money!$$$$$$$$$$$
yeah I would marry for money...
My integrity would not allow me to whore myself for money. I would find another way....and so should you.